WA Senior Support

Stop the money first. The investigation comes after.

When fraud is in progress, only the bank can stop a transfer that is already moving, and only in real time. Do the money steps first, then report. These steps are the same wherever your parent lives.

#1

Call the bank's fraud line now

Call the bank or brokerage right away and tell them you believe your parent is being financially exploited. Ask them to stop or reverse any pending transfers and to review recent activity. Washington law lets a bank refuse to release funds when it reasonably suspects exploitation of a vulnerable adult, for up to five business days, or ten if a securities sale is involved, and the bank then reports to Adult Protective Services and the police. Get the case number and the representative's name. If the first person cannot help, ask for the fraud-department supervisor.
#2

Freeze credit at all three bureaus

Free, and it stops new accounts being opened in their name. Each bureau separately. Equifax 1-800-685-1111, Experian 1-888-397-3742, TransUnion 1-888-909-8872, or online. A freeze goes on within one business day and you can lift it within an hour when needed. Save the PINs.
#3

File a police report and an FTC report

Call the local non-emergency police line and file a financial-fraud report. Some banks need that case number to reverse a charge. Then file at IdentityTheft.gov, the FTC's site, which generates an identity-theft report and a recovery plan that banks and creditors accept as evidence.
#4

Report to Adult Protective Services

Call Washington Adult Protective Services at 1-877-734-6277 (TTY 1-833-866-5595), statewide, with online intake any time, and anonymous reports accepted. They will not stop the transfers, the bank just did that, but they document the case, connect your parent to support, and watch for repeat patterns. If your parent lives in a licensed facility and a staff member is involved, also call the Long-Term Care Ombudsman at 1-800-562-6028 and the state licensing line at 1-800-562-6078.
#5

Lock the door before the next attempt

Scammers often get back in within hours. Reset the email and bank passwords. Remove any phone numbers or alert contacts the scammer added. If they came in through a shared email account, separate the accounts. Ask the bank to remove any new payees or transfer instructions added recently.

After the immediate hour

Once the crisis is delayed or stabilized, you have time. Take the standard quiz to get curated picks for the longer arc. COPES eligibility, your AAA, family caregiver support, what to set up before the next round.

These scripts are paraphrased from caregivers who have been through these situations on r/dementia, r/AgingParents, ALZConnected, and AARP. They are not legal or medical advice. The LTC Ombudsman, your AAA, and the Alzheimer's helpline are all free and can advise on the specifics of your situation.

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