Stop the money first. The investigation comes after.
When fraud is in progress, only the bank can stop a transfer that is already moving, and only in real time. Do the money steps first, then report. These steps are the same wherever your parent lives.
Call the bank's fraud line now
Freeze credit at all three bureaus
File a police report and an FTC report
Report to Adult Protective Services
Lock the door before the next attempt
After the immediate hour
Once the crisis is delayed or stabilized, you have time. Take the standard quiz to get curated picks for the longer arc. COPES eligibility, your AAA, family caregiver support, what to set up before the next round.
These scripts are paraphrased from caregivers who have been through these situations on r/dementia, r/AgingParents, ALZConnected, and AARP. They are not legal or medical advice. The LTC Ombudsman, your AAA, and the Alzheimer's helpline are all free and can advise on the specifics of your situation.
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